Intimacy vs. Isolation

In Erik Erikson's psychosocial development theory, the progression of life is outlined in experiences that one may pass through. During the intimacy vs. isolation stage, an individual will learn and establish a relationship based on trust. This does not necessarily indicate a romantic relationship, but often does. The ability to trust another human being is very important in feeling connected with humanity, the next stage in Erikson's progression. I feel like for many individuals this stage begins with a best friend relationship. Due to my moving around frequently, I didn't get to establish this relationship until 7th grade. On the flip side of this stage is isolation which I experienced with men. It wasn't until college that I really came to trust men enough to be intimate with them. I think it is important to note that within the intimacy part of this stage, the intimate relationship is one that enhances both parties without stifling one another. I think it takes some people some time to understand that facet of development.